Suddenly…Shame
Often, when we look at the story of Adam and Eve, we focus mainly on their downfall.
What exactly changed in their relationship with each other, themselves individually, and their relationship with God when they decided to go their own way?
Often, when we look at the story of Adam and Eve, we focus mainly on their downfall. What theologians call “The Fall.” Rarely, however, do we pay much attention to the relational implications of their decision. Think about it this way. What exactly changed in their relationship with each other, themselves individually, and their relationship with God when they decided to go their own way?
At that moment their eyes were opened, and they suddenly felt shame at their nakedness. So they sewed fig leaves together to cover themselves (Gen. 3:7, NLT).
Suddenly is a strong, time-sensitive adverb. It locates us in our lives, at an exact moment. With quick impact! This is what happened to Adam and Eve. The changes between the three of them (God, Adam, and Eve) happened immediately. In a flash, they felt shame.
What is shame? What does it mean to feel it? And what does it do to us relationally? Shame stems from our sense of unworthiness. When we feel it, we often feel accused of being unloved, unwanted, or rejected. Maybe the worst part is that shame blames us, telling us we're the problem. The thing is, shame has no good outcome. It causes us to hide. To isolate. To cover up relationally from others, ourselves, and God.
Interestingly, the author of Genesis is keen to point out at the end of the previous chapter that Adam and Eve were naked and felt no shame (see Gen. 2:25). None. Whatsoever.
Now, from the sudden impact of their sin, the very first thing they feel is shame. Do you see their response? In the blink of an eye, they try to hide. Cover up their bodies. From each other. And from God.
Reflective Response:
When in your life have you felt shame? Can you identify where it shows up?
How have you dealt with it?
How does it impact your relationship with yourself and God?
